2019.05.25-2019.05.28

HOmecomeWING – South Korea (Busan)

part ✌️ of my heart’s home.

from jan 18, 2016 – “what i love about busan is that it is a city that has built itself from the ground up. these aren’t your city socialites. they’re the hot blooded country folks who built industries with their own hands and feet. they’re passionate and friendly, and every word that comes from their mouths, does so in the form of lilts and accents: a song.”

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gukbap – i got food poisoning the first time i ate this busan specialty, but i still eat it every time i come back. also, oops, forgot to take a picture when we started (photo by C)

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just missed the fireworks that happened to be ongoing this friday evening, but still got this panoramic nightview of the sea

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coffee street (photo by W)

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Le Bakery featuring the most drool inducing baked goods (photos by C)

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oryukdo glasswalk – so peaceful and lovely to be by the ocean to feel the breeze and share some croissant crumbs with the creatures of the sea

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jagalchi market – so nervewracking to be in a new environment negotiating for things i have no sense of value for. it really helped that C and W love seafood so much because it gave me the courage to speak up to the vendor ahjumma, be assertive in communicating what we want, and even cut deals by asking for bonus items. love is so empowering

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all the spoils including live octopus and sea urchin, raw/grilled abalone, some unidentified species, and korean style sashimi

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the view of the port from outside of the market

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accidentally stumbled across the yongdusan stairs and took a walk through the park to see busan tower on our way to the trickeye museum

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the trickeye museum is one of my favorite parts of korea – they moved locations and tried to become fancy with some VR app on the phone, which is an unfortunate move, but still had a lot of fun taking crazy pics here! (photos by W and C)

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street yums – busan style hoddeok and ddukbokki (photo by W)

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something tells me this chinatown is dying a little bit which is why it was so hard to find jjajjangmyeon here – so sad

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milmyeon and ddukmanduguk for breakfast. doesn’t it look so perfect for a rainy morning?

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reached gamcheon cultural village in the pouring rain, and we’re not too eager to go outside, so we’re dawdling a bit in the coffee shop with a view, and poring over this fashion guidebook for men (side hobbies)

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trying to pretend that we are totally okay with the rain, but really, we’re not. and neither is the little prince (photos by C)

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we meant to head to haeundae beach for a sand castle building festival, but with winds and rains like this, who are we kidding? everyone was cold and miserable and wet, and we ran straight to our american haven, mcdonalds, to feed, sleep and wait out the rain. i think the videos of this day will always bring laughs, and we’ll always remember this day with fondness. because sometimes it’s really just the worst days that bring you closer together and remind you of the goodness of friendship.

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we were not going to go anywhere for dinner, so we instead scoured the downstairs supermarket for the cheapest goods and the yummiest instant food and made a feast out of it

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also remembered with fondness are the evenings spent watching Secretary Kim – i love this drama love for admin figures (photo by W)

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was not expecting much from the fishcake store, but this stuff was actually really good! (photo by W)

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W bought me a Ryan chocolate milk for the plane ride back to HK. W knows my heart ❤️

2019.05.21-2019.05.25

HOmecomeWING – South Korea (Seoul)

south korea is not my actual heritage, but it is my heart’s home. it is through this nation’s people, food, and culture that i have learned how to enjoy food with more depth and appreciation, develop an eye for aesthetics, pursue excellence in music and language, and really embrace my own identity by seeing life from a different perspective. needless to say, it was with great joy that i was able to bring two near and dear friends to meet this second home, to enjoy all that this city has to offer.

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in december 2016, my sister and i landed in south korea in the late evening, and pomato, right around the corner from our humble airbnb studio, greeted us with the wonder of its cheap, delicious kimbap and the most bomb rice cake dumpling soup, hot and steamy, on a cold winter’s night. it’s a late evening on our arrival in may 2019, and i’m so happy to be greeted once more by the same familiar sights and yummy dishes

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 day one – kimbap ladies on the side of the road serve the most delicious kimbap in huge portions. We finished every bite. The secret – that sesame oil sprinkled on top adding that amazing nuttiness and depth of flavor

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we tried to go down this alley and order one dish between the three of us, and as the ahjumma’s heard our request, they instantaneously went from soliciting our business to shooing us along and rejecting us, spreading the news about us with derision to each of the stalls in front of us. We were finally ushered into a corner at the front of the alley as the lady graciously allowed us to order one dish. We’ve definitely been blacklisted here (photo by W)

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rice cakes of every variety – pretty and delicious

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maybe it’s because i’m an extremely habitual person, so every time I’m in Seoul, i always start with the same route – Namdaemun market and the gate, and we walk north all the way until we reach the palace.

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coincided with a gate ceremony and got a photo with one of the guys (everyone wanted a photo with the center guy but we wanted to give the side guy some love)

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Seoul Metropolitan Library – “A day without a name still becomes spring; a flower without a name still smells fragrant”

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 the most beautiful city hall in the world (photo by C)

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i love the lovely gyeongbokgung, but one thing i’ve never been able to do is successfully take a good photo with the beautiful bugaksan properly in the background

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tongin market is such a fun lunch spot, but we arrived late, and were unfortunately only able to grab some lukewarm leftovers. how do they make the pancakes so good?? (photo by W)

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injeolmi everything – ice and toast! this was a delicious first for me (photo by W)

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Korea has always been about fulfilling dreams, my own and others as well – so stopping here to grab a hotbar (fishcake on a stick) and fulfilling one of C’s dreams was very exciting!

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the streets of dongdaemun rife with sights and smells, activity and movement, life and people. N Seoul tower peeking through

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Sarangbang Kalguksu is the recommendation of my roommate. Lots of side dishes, a savory light stock broth, and strips of chicken ripped straight off the bone to dip in either the soup or the tangy, sweet, spicy sauce – not the prettiest meal, but loads of yum!

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Step into any convenience store in Asia, and you’ll want to come out with every item on the shelf

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the korean people are so impeccable with color. somehow, they just slap together four or five very vibrant and very different colors together, and it looks classy and chic, never tacky. i was not created to look very flattering in pink, but this was one of those moments when it was worth it to pick something lifegiving over nice looking (photo by W)

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W’s poses are literally straight from the cinema. A-lister (photo by C)

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hanboks – spring edition (photo by W)

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i love myself and the place that i have given in life, but i still wish there were more opportunities to dress up, to play pretend, and to masquerade in another identity. so much fun to step into other shoes occasionally (photo by W)

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this grandma stopped us on the street to fix the bow in the hanbok top. such a sweet moment of pride for her own people and their traditions in the form of a kind act

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revisiting a favorite meal from last time – i love the plates here

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dessert!!! baked injeolmi toast and smoothies and traditional cinnamon ginger drinks from this super nice lady (she even gave us free crackers for taking a long time!) – such a nice time to just rest and enjoy and play games and hide from the heat (photo by W)

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ssamgiri -the kind of place where you just want to buy all the artisan goods from every store you see, from DIY goops to carabiners to journals to soaps to stationery to plants and more

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hongdae by night – college town

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of course the college kids have access to the best fried chicken (photo by W)

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i still remember the first time we came to this market and my sister was super hesitant about eating something as unappetizing sounding as a mung bean pancake. our fears were instantly banished by the savory, crunchy-on-the-outside-soft-on-the-inside flavor of the pancake dipped into the perfectly complementary sauce, complete with fermented raw onions. also tragic is the fact that i tried to eat one in the States one time, and it was just NOT the SAME (photo by C)

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they let us order one bibimbap without any questions asked. needless to say, we love this market

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the fattest spicy rice cakes in the world (photo by C)

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this is one of my dreams – popping by a convenience store on a hot day to look through and purchase your favorite ice pop

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cityscape from ehwa mural village, which was an excruciating walk up – hopefully worth it

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common ground – i don’t know how they contrived to make shipping containers look so good, but they did, and here they are. the best part of this trip was the a/c and eating the tempura at a restaurant after

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i tell everyone that this is my favorite moment of the trip, when we looked up the best grilled intestine restaurants in the city and made a special trip out to this stop just for dinner. and it’s not just because the food was good. it was the fact that it was something i wanted to do but few people in my life would have gone on such a dinner expedition with me. to have friends who would come alongside with me, desire to do the things i want to do, and enjoy the things i enjoy was so empowering and made me feel really loved. thankful for friends and grilled intestines (photo by W)

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i literally cried when i took the first bite. what a beautiful intersection of time, tastebuds, and friendship (photo by W)

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coin-operated karaoke machines make for a cheap and extremely fun post-dinner experience. my go-to karaoke song these days is “love the way you lie” by eminem and rihanna. what’s yours? (photo by W)

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perspective is such a funny thing – i’ve been to ddp multiple times and was unimpressed, so i didn’t even put it on our itinerary, but C mentioned wanting to go, so we went. imagine my shock when C and W were both blown away and fully amazed by the structure. i clearly have much more to learn about what my friends like, and that’s okay! the taiwanese night market being hosted on site was also helpful

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my name is chris paul and i’m a victim (photoset by C)

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biking by hangang – C’s brilliant idea for our last morning in seoul ended up being one of my favorite activities and a new memory for the annals (photo by C)

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an ahjumma dragged my brother into this jokbal restaurant three years ago and i was so angry that time because there was way too much food for the two of us. so i came back with an extra person, but it was still way too much.

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seoullo 117 – a beautified skywalk area next to the train station with lots of plants, benches, and an atmosphere of peace in the midst of the city bustle. Plus a view of the beautiful train tracks

2019.05.20-2019.05.21

HOmecomeWING – Taiwan

The summer home of C’s childhood – on the outside this is a small, humble island nation, but on this inside it is truly a mecca of creativity, entrepreneurship, beauty, and feasting. It was amazing how much our eyes, ears, noses, mouths, and hands were delighted in the short 24 hour sojourn here, but even with all we were able to take in, it is impossible to do justice to this place in such a short time. Will be back.

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So many things to say about this China Airlines flight. Like how old is this plane??? Old school remote controls with credit card swiping access to phones. Flight delayed 2-3 hours :O but the snacks are sooooo much better than peanuts. Also, meal for like a 2 hour flight??? So confused. So unclear how to feel (photo by W)

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The cutest, quirkiest Airbnb. I’m getting one of these bear lights for my home. And the toilet paper roll.

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Black window shades – genius

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W worked so hard to get this LED heart to light up for me – thank you! And lookit that loft with a bed and a bedroom with shower underneath!!!

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Cone of shame lamp!! Why does anyone need this, and at the same time, why doesn’t everyone have one of these???

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Taipei is home to several little arts districts that are just so wonderful – you literally just want to spend hours and hours at each shop, and as you walk down the lane, there’s just more and more and more to see. W and I went to Songyan district, which used to be a tobacco factory turned into a hip area with leather goods shops, beautiful coffee shops, and of course I spent a good hour in this stationery store and wanted to buy everything inside… (photo by W)

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Kyushu Pancake Cafe and matcha flavored souffle pancakes. I need not say more. Make your way here as soon as you can. Bonus is the stool that is literally shaped like a stack of pancakes with a pat of butter on top.

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Only one night for night market, so it’s the best of the best for us – Raohe Street Night Market

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black pepper meat buns – buns on buns on buns in this cooking contraption that I don’t know how to describe

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mango loves strawberry shaved ice, and I love you all

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all my mario party dreams have come true with the eating of these steak cubes

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I could eat Taiwanese breakfast all day every day…hot and delicious, with so much variety, and so cheap! Was quite indignant by the Google reviews that referred to 油条 as a biscuit fritter. None of this Western terminology to compare!

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Visiting C’s favorite Fukienese restaurant – we clearly ordered way too much food, but it was so good that we finished every bite of it, and we each also consumed a bowl of grass jelly that came as dessert. More to follow.

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The saying is true that one can NEVER be too full for boba. My eyes are opened to the wonders of fresh milk with brown sugar boba, and my life will never be the same again.

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One may be stuffed to the brim, but one also cannot pass up a chance for the best 刈包 in town. Heart heart heart heart heart heart heart

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train station sushi for less than a buck a piece? I’ll have some of that, thank you. Also a shout out to the delicious shrimp burger and fish burger at Mos Burger, also to be found at Taipei Train Station

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mr. donuts mochi rings have no rival in this world. Please bring them to the States soon. Please.

2019.05.16 – 2019.05.29

HOmecomeWING – Hong Kong

The home of W – earth meets water in perfect harmony in this mountainous seaside city. And its people know how to use the gifts of nature, as evidenced in all the delicious dishes, by land and by sea, to be enjoyed while hiking through mosquito-filled verdure and hilly urban jungles on the hot, humid May days. What a perfect way to begin and end this adventure, in this little city that has a big personality.

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Classic HK cafe fare at Tsui Wah – you have to get your fill of HK style milk tea, Horlick, Ovaltine, and condensed milk pour over buns

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Exploring Central and trying hard to think of poses (photo by W)

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What’s your know-how on picking strangers to take photos for you? We were amazed that this girl got a photo with no other people in it, because this place was swarming with action!

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“Rich is easy, personality is rare.” -some obviously rich person (photo by C)

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HK-er’s are very into acronyms – this is PMQ, a former policy housing quarters turned into a hip cultural shopping area, where we just so happened to pass by a Taiwanese night-market style pop-up!

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Cupping Room – it’s day one and I’m already needing my millennial dosage of avocado and smoked salmon on a toast. The super savory and peppery creamy pasta was a delicious bonus

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The powdery matcha croissant was an extra bonus. This is really our day!

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You pick which stick and they fry it fresh for ya!

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HK desserts – one for each as an icy relief for the temperatures outside. Mine is strawberry sorbet with sweet tofu pudding beneath!

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fluffy fluffy fluffy mochi just like a pillow or a cloud, enclosing a humongous juicy, ripe mango. You can be sure that we had more than one of these treasures

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The view from W’s bedroom window – bougy

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The famous Tim Ho Wan does not disappoint: ha gao and cha siu bao galore – all at a ridiculously reasonable price for a Michelin starred restaurant

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So thankful to both W and C for graciously helping me to fulfill my great dream of visiting every single Disney park in the world! HK is stop number 4

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Every time I walk into the Disney park, the road that welcomes me is the same, regardless of season, weather, country, etc. But from the uniformity comes a joy and comfort that is new every time – here I can play, here I can wonder, here I can enjoy (photo by W)

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Yau Ma Tei – we finally found the cheapo street vendors and clay pot rice. Oh my, you pour that soy sauce over the top!

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No, we’re not done eating yet…thank you, kind lady, for letting us order one bowl of beef noodle soup between the three of us. The dried fish skin chips dipped in the soup was a killer combo (I couldn’t stop eating even though I was stuffed)

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But wait, there’s more! Gai Dan Zai (Egg Puff Waffle) with ice cream and chocolate sprinkles – I crave this dessert regularly

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this trip was a lot about learning to be together, to walk alongside one another both in our similarities and our differences, to communicate clearly and honestly, make compromises in the name of love, and value friendship by giving time to learn about one another’s homes outside of the States (photo by C)

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I mistakenly thought that the Chinese word for ferris wheel was “a wheel that touches the sky”. Unfortunately it was not the right character, but I always thought it was the best linguistic mistake I ever made in my life (photo by W)

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even in our own homes, there are new experiences to be had, so we went to a speakeasy in LMK (photo by W)

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last morning in Asia – I was packed up and ready to go, but the vibes of our home reminded me of the opening scene of one of my favorite music videos filmed in HK: “Two Lovers” by Davichi

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Moody last day. Also, I can’t believe HK-er’s fearlessly open their windows and hang clothing to dry, even in apartment complexes high off the ground! You gotta do what you gotta do with the space you’re given (reminders to be grateful for the space we are given in the States)

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Australian Dairy Company – Everyone talks about how delicious the scrambled eggs here are, but you brush it off because, how good could they possibly be? But once you taste its goodness, you’re a believer. Also, that milk pudding business. I’m pretty sure I ate 90% of that bowl and I’m so glad we got it hot, despite the muggy weather. This place is so worth the rude servers.

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Mong Kok – all sorts of fish, kitty, bunny, puppy and other pet menageries to be found here

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Thankful. Really just thankful for these two friends and the ability for this dream of a trip to finally become a reality of the best kind.

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No wonder W likes waterscapes so much – what a treasure to behold each day

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Candy throwback to W’s childhood – purchasing power is amazing. What are the chances these denture gummies are good for your teeth?

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Another staple of W’s school life – why do people want to look like this???

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The trolley – an HK exclusive mode of transportation

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Drool – I dream of the sugary goodness of fresh milk with brown sugar boba from Asia (this one’s from Tiger Sugar). Was utterly devastated when I tried it in America, and it was just NOT the same

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The third meal of our last half day in HK. We’re packing in all the last goodies we can taste, and this one is roast goose meat!

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炸両 – Chinese doughnuts wrapped in rice noodle roll and topped with a rich, savory soy sauce. Passing on a visual taste of the joy experienced in my time here

2019.05.10 – 2019.05.15

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We were a team brought together by J & D’s love for Jesus and love for us, and I think that was reflected in how beautifully we came together. I always feel so nervous when I’m around lots of people I’m not as familiar with, and especially so when there are big age differences, and yet knowing that God’s brought us together empowered these supernatural bonds in our midst in this time.  

I remember telling all the ladies on the team at the airport about my new relationship with A. It was a relationship that hadn’t been much welcomed by people making me really insecure at this time. I was so blessed by the encouragement and joy all of these dear sisters felt on my behalf for my happiness.

Exploring this lovely hill that opens up to view of the vast horizon during our first day and for our first sunset

An important part of the program for residents involved regular work rhythms to rebuild these individuals’ sense of what a normal, loving family is like in their routines. I loved being in the kitchen, cooking and preparing for the nourishment of others based on the meal plan set for that week. 

Coming to His Mansion, I actually wasn’t super excited because I expected God would push me to learn lessons through deep conversations and big leaps of faith that I felt too exhausted, too worn out for. How wonderful to know that Abba knew exactly how I felt, and said, I wanted you to come here and rest! So rest I did, in the company of this sweet friendly kitten named Sparkle Brownie who came by to say hi every day.

And also met her shy brother whose name was probably Twinkle Toes.

Rest also meant playing on this lovely swing. Abba, how did you know this was my favorite?

I had insisted to A that I wanted to be present with the people I was with and would not be contacting him during my 3 week time out of town. I was so thankful that M told me I was being too intense and should be allowed to give priority and time to A even if we were apart. Which I knew to be right because it gave me such a sense of relief to be able to talk to someone I missed so much. Cue evenings spent sitting on the toilet seat texting and enjoying an hour catching up about the day together.

We got to go for a tour of the storehouses and it was so awesome to see the labor of their hands in all of the homemade sauces, pickled veggies, frozen veggies, and even the center for producing maple syrup in the winter!

I remember dreading meal times the first few days because meal times meant sitting with strangers and not knowing if there would be conversation or what to talk about. As the days passed and God gave me space to rest and not push myself to do anything beyond my limits, that gave peace to engage more with the people at His Mansion and feel so much more comfortable. Talk about love being the foundation that empowers transformation.

We were assigned to the barn for our prayer walk, and you can only imagine my sheer joy when we walked to the end and this Scottish long haired cow came up to me to touch noses! It was such a beautiful moment of connection with the huge, gentle beast.

It’s so amazing to go to the East Coast because of the American history that is so rich and alive in these parts in a way that we don’t have in California. We got to visit the local cemetery belonging to the original owners of this land back in the 1700’s and see this tombstone honoring a veteran of the Revolutionary War!

One of the biggest reasons I had decided to come to His Mansion was to support M, who was ending his decade long tenure serving in this ministry. M is someone who was so integral to my growth, teaching me to embrace my feelings and encouraging me to not only practice my faith, but teach others what I was learning – to me that was the epitome of discipleship even though we had only met each other a handful of times in the last few years. As I came on this trip, I realized a sudden awkwardness as I engaged with him in conversation and I didn’t understand why I felt that way. On the last night of the trip, His Mansion hosted a farewell dinner for him, during which there was a chance for people to share. I remember feeling unqualified, but really feeling God prompting me to speak up, and so even though I missed my first cue, God gave me a second chance to speak up and share M’s impact on my life. The next morning, as we debriefed, M spoke up and thanked me for the opportunity to see the fruit of what he was doing in the people’s lives he was investing in. At that point, I realized that the awkwardness had come from my not feeling worthy to give him affirmation because I saw him as someone with higher status than myself. The opportunity to share his part in my life was also a chance for me to be healed of my feeling unworthy of speaking up with vulnerability based on my position or abilities. Thank you, Jesus for that healing moment, and thank you, M.

Ahaha, D is so hilarious. Had so much fun spending the last evening helping  him fix some old cars and using my hands to work with machinery and tools.

Bye Sparkle Brownie~